Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Greetings from our getaway!!
I'll post more when I get a chance. I've lost my USB cord so I have to see if I can borrow one from the business center so I can post pictures!! We're off to the elephant park tomorrow - should be real interesting!!
We miss you all so much and truly wish our family and friends could explore with us - this part of the world has so much to offer and amazing people to learn more about!!
Monday, January 26, 2009
Gong Xi Fa Cai (Happy Chinese New Year!)
Chinese New Year or Spring Festival (as many locals refer to it) is the most celebrated holiday in China. The celebration goes on for 15 days! Family reunions are plentiful and children are given almost a month off to celebrate. I was very curious to learn more about the customs and traditions of this celebration because I kept hearing things like you can't sweep or women get new hair do's for the month and I had to find out if these things were all true!!
Here are some of the traditions I found out are indeed true (although a bit peculiar if you ask me!!)...
Do not sweep on New Year's Day because good fortune will be swept away. (Trust me, especially in Tianjin, a day without sweeping can cause a lot of dirt to build up!)
At midnight all doors and windows must be opened to allow the old year out!
One should not wash their hair on New Year's Day or it will wash away good luck.
Do not use knives or scissors on New Year's Day or it may cut off your fortune.
Eat lots of tangerines - they are a sign of good health and long life.
This last bit has to do with the fireworks (that were keeping me up before we left) and red decorations that are everywhere you look right now!! Ellie actually watched a movie about this on the same day that I did some research, so this must be a well known story!! So there once was a sea monster named Nian that would come and destroy the people - the only two things that would keep him away were loud noises and the color red. This is why on New Year's Eve fireworks go off nonstop and everyone has red decorations on their doors, windows, etc!!
There are many more traditions that I am missing, like wearing red panties and a bra if it is "your" year (my friend Sharon shared this one with me!!), but these were the ones I have confronted and been told about this year! I'm sure next year we will see and hear many other traditions that we can share with you!!
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
And We're Off...Again!!
We are so excited to go to Singapore. Apparently it is very clean - big on my list for vacationing spots now!! They also have a wonderful zoo and night safari for the kids. I get to go to Orchard Road which is well known for the shopping. It is very warm right now with temps hovering around 90 (probably too warm for Danny!).
After three days in Singapore we will take an hour long ferry ride to Indonesia, where we will be staying at an all inclusive resort that offers child care all day! We paid the extra so Coop could take part also!! I'm not sure if Danny and I will know what to do with a bit of time on our hands and no place to go but the beach!!!!
Shonna commented to me yesterday that it seems all we do is travel. Yes, this is true in some ways, but you have to remember that China can really wear on you. Our friends that have lived here for over a year told us to always have a trip planned to look forward too. We are following their advice and are so excited to see many parts of the world that at one time we thought we would only read about!!!
Monday, January 19, 2009
A Chinese Dinner
The kids had a wonderful time playing with their daughter Vicky, who is 9. She is very quiet and does not speak a lot of English, but you can see it in her eyes that she understands. I've said this before, but children, regardless of where they are from, have the ability to find a common language! It is amazing to witness this first hand! According to Vicky's parents, she had been looking forward to us coming to dinner for over a week. Since she does not have any siblings, her only playmates are her grandparents outside of school.
Our friends absolutely adore our boys! From the minute we walked into the door, they doted on them - they want chocolate before dinner, no problem, a little yogurt, yum, some yogurt candy, perfect, a little soda, that's fine too. They then could not figure out why on earth our boys did not want to eat dinner!!
The meal itself was over the top...I felt like we ate for 3 hours straight. We arrived and had some tea and chips. Then we went to the table and were served 3 different kinds of chicken on bones, pidan (I call them stinky eggs!) with tofu, garden salad, and potato salad with ham. The whole time we toasted throughout the meal, I switched to Coke after one glass of wine, I really wanted to be able to walk when we were finished!! Next course comprised of noodles, sauce (made of beans - really yummy), shredded cucumbers and soy beans. They also served some eggs with tomato, which I couldn't fathom putting anymore food in my belly at that time. Next they brought out huge, baseball sized meatballs with sauce and rice. Then they served a lovely soup and finally, at the very end, fruit platters were brought out!
Oops, I forgot, they also served a beautiful cake to the kids right in the middle of dinner!!! Can you see Coop's big eyes? He can't believe someone is allowing him to eat cake before he is through with dinner!!
We ended up with a parting gift of a honey pommelo fruit - simply because we asked what it was! They also tried to give us the toys that Eens and Coop were playing with, but we insisted that we leave them at their house - one was from when their daughter was little.
We were pleasantly stuffed when we finally left and the kids were so tired that they actually slept in the next day!! That doesn't happen very often!
What's your animal?
Dan and I are both Rabbits...those born in the year of the Rabbit are articulate, talented, ambitious, virtuous, reserved(hmm), tactful, have excellent taste, and seldom lose their temper (another hmm.)
Ellie was born in the year of the Snake, quite interesting!! Those born in the year of the Snake are known for their vanity, selfishness, stinginess (does that mean not sharing candy with her brothers?!), and a calm suface, but underneath they are intense and passionate!! I'm not so sure about El's!
Eens was born in the year of the Monkey and his is right on!! These people are clever, skillful, flexible, inventive (who made a volcano out of recycled boxes!!), passionate, and strong willed!
Coop was born in the year of the Dog and his traits are supposed to be loyalty, honesty, leadership, and a champion for justice (is this why he tattles so much?!)! I'll have to wait until Coop is older to decide if these are in fact traits he possesses - it's too early to tell!!
If you want to find out your animal, go to Find Your Chinese Zodiac Animal at http://grassrootsdesign.com/zodiac/zsrch.php
Have fun!!
Friday, January 16, 2009
What Did You Do at Sleepovers?
It's Been a Tianjin 48 Hours!
Beating the winter blues!
Anyway, to beat the boredom of being stuck inside this month, we are all addicted to the Wii!! We particularly like Mario Kart!! Coop begs for it throughout the day, to the point where we now have restrictions for him on how much he can play. And no, I didn't just put the restrictions out there so he can't practice and beat me a few more times - it's for his own good, really!!!! Above you can see Coop during a practice session and then below, Eens is studying the instructions. They have been playing Uncle Michel wirelessly on the DS (we're a little addicted to that too - same game though!!) and they are all convinced he is cheating!!
Hope you are all staying warm!! It will eventually be spring!!!
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Girl's Day!
The first thing El said when we parked in the strip mall was, "Mom, everything is written in English!!". I think it is surprising for El when she can actually read the signs and the store names. Most are written in Chinese, so we basically have no clue what lies behind the doors!! We went to the dentist office first and filled out a gajillion papers, and, just to make sure I understood, I signed "the I am financially responsible" paper about 10 times!! We were called back promptly at 1:00 and were happy that the room was clean and had modern equipment. The only real difference I found throughout both of our appointments was that the dentist actually did the cleaning! Ellie asked me to go first. They used that high pressure water cleaning device (have no idea what it is called, I just know I don't like it). I really don't like getting my teeth cleaned, so she sat there and watched me wince occassionally. By the time it was her turn, she started crying and begged the dentist not to use the sprayer - I don't blame her!! He said he doesn't use it on children and she ended up having a wonderful appointment. He was very gentle and explained everything he was going to do before he did it! My overall impression was that it was a very clean, professional office and we will definitely go back - next time with the whole family!!!
After our appointments, I tried with no luck to retrieve money from the ATM (I exceeded my limit yesterday buying the piano!!!). I was hoping that Jenny Lou's would accept my Visa, and thankfully, they did!! Ellie took forever picking out cereal - it was ALMOST like a US grocery store with half an aisle devoted to cereal! She is used to choosing between 2 or 3 different kinds, so imagine having about 30 in front of you! I splurged on Bounty paper towels - about $4 per roll, but so worth it!! We loaded up on snacks for our trip next week and for Ellie to eat on the way home! She was so cute, she kept asking how many minutes it had been since her flouride treatment. She knew she had to wait at least 30 minutes before she could eat!
I used my last bit of money (40 RMB) to buy a grande vanilla latte - I cannot leave "mini America" (as Jen calls it!) without a Starbucks!! We had a lovely ride home watching the sunset against a perfectly clear sky!! I know it was only a trip to the dentist and some grocery shopping, but I will take whatever alone time I can get with my daughter!!
I've got proof!!
Monday, January 12, 2009
That's the way they do it!
The other day, I was with my ayi and driver on our way to the post office to pick up a package from my mom! The two of them got into a little tiff, while we were sitting in the middle of the road, about the best place to park, because neither of them think it is proper for me to walk more than two steps out of the car! In the meantime, I'm watching this car come directly at my side of the car at full speed. In the end, both cars honk at each other, pretending that they each had the right away and drive on as if nothing happened - I'm sitting in the back thinking I almost got crushed and no one really cared. Driving in China is dangerous, but what can we do.
There are also no seatbelt or carseat laws in China. We always use the carseats (unless on our way to Sunday lunch with Jen and Kevin) in our car, but when we are in the taxi, the kids have learned to sit without even seatbelts on. Of course now, the kids would much rather ride in a taxi than our car because they don't have to wear seatbelts!!! I love the US rules of the road!!! One year ago, I never would have allowed this...
Yes, there are 10 people in a minivan fit for 7!! Life in China....
My next complaint are the bathrooms and hygiene practices that are in place here. The bathrooms, you all know, usually contain a squat potty. You stand, there is no sitting and do your thing. Ellie and I continue to avoid public restrooms. The boys love the squat pottys and Coop gets mad when there is a regular potty. I have decided that this is one reason why God thought I should have the two boys - life is much easier in China with two boys going to the potty!!!
The next part about bathroom etiquette is a bit gross, so if you have a weak tummy, you may want to quit reading now!!
Most public toilets are unable to accept paper down the drain, due to the plumbing apparently, so the Chinese simply wipe and throw away the toilet paper in an open garbage can in the stall. It is really too much for me to handle - the smell, the sight, too much. So the other day, I was getting on Cooper about wiping his tushy when he went to the bathroom and he kept telling me he did wipe. I didn't see any toilet paper in the potty, instead, I found it in the garbage can beside the potty. He's apparently becoming a local!!!
Friday, January 9, 2009
Welcome, Our Newest Addition!!
A Thoughtful Gift
They did it!!!
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Hen Mafan (Very bothersome!!)
Carry On Perfection
As far as I'm concerned these DS games are lifesavers during our flight! The kids love them and so do Dan and I!!
Leapsters, just in case they get tired of the DS or the batteries run out! Plus, I think the Leapster games are more educational!!
You never know when you will need some batteries!!!
These are fantastic kids' headphones for Ethan and Coop - they actually stay on their ears!! Yes, we have tried to find them in other colors besides pink for the boys, but have not been able too!!!
Another lifesaver!! Sorry it is upside down, but this 5 point harness for Cooper keeps him in his seat!! I now use it more as a threatening tool since he is getting used to flying, but for the first few trips, it was invaluable!!
Chewable Dramamine (thanks dad!!) is the way to go for our little motion sick boy!! He kept begging for more pills the whole plane ride!!
I have found that I can only sleep with this lovely pillow!!
Danny found this portable DVD player that has a 12 hour battery - perfect for a 13 hour flight!!!
Extra pair of clothes - no explanation needed!!!
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
What's in the bags?
2 bags to go - it really feels like we are moving again when we begin to unpack and try to find space for the things we bring back!!!
Monday, January 5, 2009
Some Family Time and a Peaceful Good-Bye
Coming to America
Once we arrived at the airport we quickly checked in our 3 suitcases with 5 extra ones tucked inside!! Then we proceeded to the Star Alliance lounge where we filled up on snacks and drinks because you never know what the food will be like on the plane!! The airport in Beijing is fantastic! It is very clean and easy to navigate! I also love that they have little carts all over so I don't have to carry all the carry on bags!! It truly is the little things!!! We also noticed on this trip that they opened up a Pizza Hut close to the gates!!!
Once on the plane, we play musical chairs with the fighting of who is sitting where!! I always end up with Cooper and this time I got both Eens and Cooper!!! The good news was that we had an entire row of 5 chairs for the 3 of us. Danny got the "easy" ride with Ellie and him sitting in the row in front of us!!
Ellie enjoying her first drink service out of 4 or 5!!
The boys and I keeping busy during the first hour of the flight!
Eens watching Wall E on the tv - thank goodness they normally show at least one children's movie! It keeps them occupied for a couple of hours and then we can turn on the Disney Channel for awhile!
No more tv for this boy! He's moved on to the DS, about 4 hours into the flight!!
After about 5 hours sleep takes over my boys!! They have now been travelling for about 10 hours!
It's time to brush those teeth - a necessity after all of the dry air circulating in the plane!!
After a little over 14 hours on the plane and about an hour going through customs, it is all worth it when we see grandma and grandpa!!!
Our 2 hour drive to my grandma and grandpa's and parent's house!!